Be At Home No Matter Where You Are

Soul EyesWhile transitioning towards the new consciousness, we will inevitably come to realize that our experiences are not defined by the circumstances of our life, but rather by the way we perceive our environment. In other words, what we believe about what we perceive, define our experiences.
We can say that we, units of consciousness, are moving in this time-space earth realm, encountering different kinds of energies or situations, that we can also call information. This information doesn’t carry in itself any characteristics such as good or bad, information is neutral in itself and exists simply as potentials of possibilities until it is perceived.
What defines our individual experiences (E) is the meeting point between our consciousness (C) which perceives, information (I) which is perceived, and our belief system (B) that labels what is perceived. So we could summarize this with the following equation:
C + I + B = E
Most of the time we are perceiving our reality while being lost in the ego: Beings moving around in a 3D universe, co-creating a collective reality by having more or less the same definitions (B) about the information (I) that is being encountered (C), thinking that this reality exists independently of our perception and what we think about it.
For example, does a tree falling in a forest where there is nobody make a sound? In other words, if there are no ears to hear, is there sounds? There is information, energy or vibration for sure, but we can’t say there is sound without the appropriate sense to perceive it. Ears turn information into sounds, and then our conditioned mind will define what is that sound by comparing it with past experiences.
(C) and (I) can’t be changed. Consciousness is what perceived, it is constant. Information is all the different states of energy, it is infinite in potential. Our beliefs (B) about what is perceived is the only ingredient in the equation that we can act upon to change our experience (E).
What is shifting our experience from the old paradigm to the new, is the transition from the perspective of the ego to the perspective of the soul. The soul (or the higher-self) operate from a very different place than the ego, it operates from a larger cosmic plan while also integrating the ego experience. So it is more accurate to define the ego as the soul in its most dormant state, so we can accept it as part of the soul’s journey and bring forward an heart-centered approach routed in compassion.
When we are lost in ego, we are pursuing pleasure, trying to stay as much as possible where we feel good and comfortable while trying to get rid of uncomfortable or painful experiences. From the perspective of the soul, an experience is valuable no matter uncomfortable or painful it is, and difficult situations are seen as catalysts for our growth and evolution.
So when we are following a spiritual path, thinking that it will bring us more of what we prefer and help us to avoid pain and suffering, we are still perceiving from the ego point of view. We are still limiting ourselves. What shifting to the perception of the soul brings over time, is less resistance with unwanted situations. We don’t change the circumstances of the situation but we change the relationship we have with it. And we become creators of our reality by re-defining what is perceived according to our highest state of consciousness.
In zen, there is saying: “Before enlightenment, chop wood carry water, after enlightenment chop wood carry water.” So what has changed? What is changed is the inner resistance to what is, the struggle has been dropped, or the one who struggles has been realized to be illusory, the individual will is aligned with the divine will.
What I found really valuable is to share uplifting information with my fellow human beings, so that everyone can, more and more, experience life from the perspective of the soul and stop fighting with unpleasant situations. The ego becoming in this way simply part of the soul’s journey instead of being perceived as an enemy in the way of our highest potential.
We are not here to return to heaven, we are here to bring heaven on earth. We are not here to transcend the ego or the human condition, but to integrate it in the embodiment of our highest soul potential.
We can redefine our reality in the same way that we have been conditioned, especially in our early years, by repetition, by spending more time with inspiring people that uplift our consciousness, by participating in events that open our heart and soul, by putting aside any information that is not serving our highest evolution.
What can you stop doing in your life that is no serving your highest value? And what new way of thinking can you start practicing to align yourself with your soul while?
With love and gratitude for sharing this amazing soul’s journey with you,


One-day Immersion for Lovers @ Netherlands
Nov 13 all-day

This day will give you a taste of the Living Intimacy – Path of the Beloved 4-retreat journey. It is also an opportunity to give yourself a one-day immersion together with your beloved, where you are being guided, in a safe and loving container, to experience a selection of the Living Intimacy practices. The content is created in the flow of the moment, which makes all immersion-days different from each other.

Here are some general elements of the day:

  • Guided meditation landing and relaxing into yourself and with your beloved
  • What is Living Intimacy – Short presentation
  • Opening to heart consciousness and formulating an intention for the day
  • Breath, movement and other embodiment practices for more aliveness
  • The art of conscious touch
  • Tantric meditations to enhance the love current with your beloved
  • How to communicate with your beloved from vulnerability instead of blame and protection
  • Time for sharing and Q&A

Even if there are other couples in the room, the intention is for you and your beloved to stay together and create your own little bubble for the two of you to have this precious time, where you get to nourish your love and deepen your intimate connection.


Time: Tuesday November 13, 2018 at 10:00 to 18:00

Location: Venwoude, Vuurse steeg 1, 3749 AN Lage Vuurshe, Netherlands –

Price: 80€ per person (included vegan organic lunch and catering)

Registration: To register for this eventclick the button “Register”  at the top right.

Living Intimacy – Ecstatic Union @ Netherlands
Nov 15 – Nov 18 all-day

Here we are deepening our exploration of the Path of the Beloved, taking the spiritual journey of relationship to a new level, where you know that the beloved, the divine is within you as well as acknowledging your partner as the beloved and an agent of the divine in human form.

When we bring this perspective into our everyday life with each other, the invitation is to interpret whatever comes up in our interaction, as a way for the souls to evolve and expand even more into essence, even if it is coming through conflict. The beloved in front of you is serving as a catalyst, bringing forth whatever is needed for you to grow into the highest version of yourself.

In this retreat we will bring tantric practices especially designed to bring more ecstasy into your intimate relating. We will explore the fire of desire and the art of worshipping the masculine/feminine essence in each other. You will learn sacred sex rituals, bringing devotion into the bedroom, as well as exploring taoistic exercises to enhance your sexual energy and replenish your soul.

When we move in lovemaking in this way, connecting and allowing the energy to move from the sex, to the heart and beyond…merging the Beloved within with the Beloved outside and becoming one…this is Ecstatic Union.


Time: From Thursday November 15, 2018 at 10:00 until Sunday November 18, 2018 at 17:00.

Location: Venwoude, Vuurse steeg 1, 3749 AN Lage Vuurshe, Netherlands –

Price: 620€*
Reduction price for 4 retreats: 2120€* (100€ discount)
Reduction price for 3 retreats: 1540€* (60€ discount)
*Price for 1 person

In the fee is included:
LODGING: Double-room
MEALS: Organic vegetarian food

Registration: To register for this retreatclick the button “Register”  at the top right. You can choose to pay the full amount at once or to pay a deposit and the remaining sum later.

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